The bottom line is that love requires genuine effort. Cuddles and kisses go a long way toward making love last, but they aren't sufficient by themselves. Sometimes you need to get out and push (the car) [ironically, Dear's car 'died' before and couldn't start, I viewed it as a bad omen of myself being a jinx], if you want your love to keep going forward, which is why falling in love can occassionally be almost as exhausting as it is invigorating. This is one of the two main reasons why people turn their backs on love. It's hard enough taking responsibility for your own feelings, let alone looking after someone else's heart as well right?
The second reason people give up: FEAR. Fear of hurt, fear of rejection, fear of potential lovers who turn out to be evil people who take all the blankets during the night and squeeze the toothpaste from the middle. Fear is the #1 obstacle to falling in love. [I applaude for Dear for being so brave and confident to dare!]
But a little fear is not so terrible. In fact it is normal and healthy. Surely, no one likes to be naked and exposed or have their dirty linen hanging out in public.
The journey to true love is not as daunting as it seems. You don't have to lose yourself to find someone else. On the contrary, different points of view are every bit as important as the things you have in common.
Two Lives, One Love.
Your personality flourishes in a relationship, which brings out your best at home and at work. Falling in love means you still get to do everything that made you happy, but now you also have the joy of sharing those things with someone else. Plus, you get a whole bunch of bonus benefits as well:
~ to be continued~
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